Yes, I am about to reveal the secret so many have searched for. It's really quite simple, if you get down to it. But for so many, it needs to be something so much more complex and mystical.
I once read somewhere, "Truth is simple. Complexity represents the force of one's ego." I can no longer find where I read that. Googling only reveals someone's MySpace page, and while I'm sure "April" supports the idea, I doubt she is the origin of the expression.
The point, my friends, is this: The Truth of Life, the Ultimate Truth, is Love.
A lot of people see Love as something complex and confusing. But that's only true because we twist it and contort it. A man once said to me that he finally understood unconditional love being with me, because he was willing to overlook my faults to stay with me. He was using that as a stab at me because I was in the process of breaking up with him because I could no longer take his abuse.
That isn't unconditional love, or love at all. It's manipulation.
Love is really quite simple. Sometimes you have to strip off the fear you wear to let it shine in its true glory. But it's not the Love that's complicated, it's the layers we pour over it to protect ourselves.
Love just exists. We don't even really know what it is. It's a feeling that you can act on. It's our desire to see something succeed outside of ourselves, when we get no benefit from it. It doesn't require language. It transcends ethnicities, nationalities, gender, and religions.
Love knows no barriers. It's never too late for Love.
There's also nothing better than Loving. Nothing makes a person feel freer, more alive. If you think back in your life, I'd imagine what you'll find is that your happiest times are those where you've made someone else feel the Love you feel for them.
I feel like we don't Love enough these days. On a global or specific level. We're so busy trying to get wherever we're trying to get that we forget to stop and Love those around us. To just feel that for humankind. We've stopped being thankful for the feeling of Love. It's not something we should take for granted. It's a gift. A very precious gift.
And if we spent more time giving the gift, we might spend more time receiving it. Then, maybe we could finally reach the heights that seem so far out of our reach. Together we can accomplish so much more than we can individually, but we all want the recognition that comes from accomplishment.
What we don't see is that we're searching for the wrong kind of recognition. We want Love, but settle for achievement of goals that probably won't matter in a few months' time.
Spend some time today expressing your Love for someone else. How you choose to demonstrate it is up to you. The point is just to do it. Just let go and show it. And ride the high that comes with that. Then do it again. And again. Until it's just part of you.
3 comments:
Love the post today (slight pun intended) I think we sometimes only see love as Eros love and we forget about Philos or even more importantly Agape love. I myself know one family who practices Agape love and I always think - wow how do you really love everyone? But I think that sometimes when we've been hurt we close ourselves off and forget to let the love in - in fear of being hurt again.
Yesterday you actually did something for me that reminded me that I am worthy and I do have friends - I had been feeling that I didn't really have friends anymore - so I thank you so much for that - and I think that is part of the Philos that I am trying to work on these days.
I love you man!
I'm trying to translate the post above. anyone?
Looks like they were telling Lyndsy thanks for making them feel like they had a friend?
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