I really didn't think anyone could object to or bitch about it. Turns out, I was wrong.
A couple of guys left comments and I have to say, I'm a bit irritated.
The first guy: Wow! That's hard, even for the best of us.
He followed up with: The first and third, no sweat! The second? I've tried that and it didn't work...TWICE! SO maybe love her like she's Venus!
The second guy: I am that man and what has it gotten me...not a damn thing! Good guys do finish last.
The first guy agrees with the second guy.
And then I banged my head on the wall.
Here's what I think: Nice guys don't really finish last. I think the problem is in the term "nice guy."
What I'm about to say isn't going to be PC and it certainly won't be nice. I know you're shocked, but here goes. A lot of "nice guys" are actually just pussies who are so wrapped up with the idea of being in a relationship that they stink of desperation and trying too hard. And when they finally get to a second date with a woman, they start talking about long-term shit. Gee, wonder why it didn't work out.
These guys try to be what they think a woman will want in her Prince Charming. All the women reading this know what the problem is, but because there may be a few of the less intelligent sex reading this, I'll be clear. IT IS RARE THAT MEN HAVE ANY IDEA WHAT A WOMAN REALLY WANTS. They try to be it, the woman doesn't respond super well, so they try something else, and she doesn't respond well, so they try something else, and she walk away. The men don't stop to think how FAKE all of this looks.
Allow me to educate: We know you're guys and therefore victims of testicular drag. More than likely, you don't really enjoy getting all dressed up for shit. You fart and burp and scratch yourself. You'd rather watch sports than go to the ballet with us. You need time to hang out with your male friends. We know all of that. Don't try to bullshit us about it. Be honest. Obviously relationships require compromise, but don't totally lose yourself just to get the girl. We can see it happening and we won't stay.
I have one more thing to say about the quote. No one is perfect, and every day won't be perfect, all women ever ask is that men try. And really, how hard is that?
2 comments:
Lyndsy,
How about this honesty is the best policy. Girls/women should be honest with us. if we suck then tell us.
Women need to be Honest too! Don't sit there from day one and say "It's OK! to hang with the guys!" then get upset with us. If you know this is who we are either accept it or move on to the other guy. Some guys try hard because they really like a woman and want to do the same thing for them that you are complaining about here. except when we, as men, walk away or don't call anymore we are the worst people on earth. When women do it, it was that the man was beneath you. Double standard I think!
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